
Can only be done with the drafting of a proper game plan. Draft a Letter with your wishes and instructions. Or a Will hand written or legal Will, but one or the other.
Tomorrow, will be the first day of the rest of your life. Your great Spirit has given you this day to use as you wish. Make it a day of happiness, contentment and achievement and not a day of sorrow and regret in order that you shall not regret the price you will have paid for it when it becomes a yesterday.
Would it therefore be important today to sit down with your wife/partner to finalize plans for the future well-being of your family or will you put it off again?
You will want to be certain about directions for the guardianship of your children so they do not become possible wards of the government who will make decisions about their welfare without any input from family sometimes.
It should be wise to remember to treat your children well, because they are the ones who might be selecting the Home for the aged for you and your wife.
What do you envision for them? How do you want your wife to be taken care of ? Will you risk not paying attention to these details and getting caught unprepared ?